There are tons of memes about this.
there is an entire meme category about how women feminism behave differently when you are attractive / unattractive
(https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/663/485/1f8.jpg)
Reality is:
(https://i.imgur.com/fVPutxD.jpeg)
(https://i.imgur.com/6QO4EIo.jpeg)