Heard a discussion when a short dude was arguing about women and dating apps with a women.
so he told her this:
because i am short, i don't get dates that would lead to other dates.
the girl response, you should love yourself, you don't love yourself because you are calling yourself a midget (term was not used by the dude).
another example:
a guy complaining to wife because he haven't had sex for 6 month, wife replies "you are obsessed with sex"
women try often to make the guy feel that he's wrong, whereas the reality is different.
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